mischievously
: irresponsibly playful
charming
: extremely pleasing or delightful
“To have a reputation for being charming is like having a reputation for being a good lover, it depends on how much the other person enjoyed themselves.”
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For years, I was at the center of the universe but not as the star of the show, more like a person on a stage with a spotlight on me with an audience ready to cast judgement on me. This wasn’t fun, this wasn’t an ego trip, it was an insecurity. It was a narrative in my head that made me feel like I was always being watched whenever I was in a social setting.
To escape my constant apprehension, I had to lose myself in an activity or only be around people that I knew really well, but I couldn’t do it consciously. Then by chance I met a few people who (some of them inadvertently) showed me there was a different way of existing in social settings. Paired with personal study of how people behave, examining what they really mean when they speak and exploring how the context of setting influences all of us, it lead to a new me, confident, carefree and even charming.
Once you learn that the skills you need to have be a great conversation, crush an interview and speak on stage all overlap, your love life, your career and your day to day relationships can’t help but improve.
If you want to have a consultation on how you can become charming and change your life, book a call and I’ll be excited to speak with you.
- Jesse